{"id":234325,"date":"2025-12-02T10:52:59","date_gmt":"2025-12-02T09:52:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/caffarel.hyppoweb.fr\/his-thought\/conjugal-spirituality\/"},"modified":"2026-07-08T19:38:34","modified_gmt":"2026-07-08T17:38:34","slug":"conjugal-spirituality","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/en\/his-thinking\/conjugal-spirituality\/","title":{"rendered":"Conjugal spirituality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;The Location&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_enable_image=&#8221;off&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;bottom_left&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;54px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; padding_top_bottom_link_1=&#8221;false&#8221; padding_top_bottom_link_2=&#8221;false&#8221; padding_left_right_link_2=&#8221;true&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;27px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;10%||40px|&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;0px||0px|&#8221; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;0px||0px|&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;90413bc8-97b4-4b6c-b85c-11d0f2dfdbfb&#8221; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;20px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.9em&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#2F5EAA&#8221; header_line_height=&#8221;1.1em&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Roboto|300|||||||&#8221; header_2_text_color=&#8221;#2F5EAA&#8221; header_2_font_size=&#8221;50px&#8221; header_2_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; max_width=&#8221;700px&#8221; max_width_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; max_width_phone=&#8221;&#8221; max_width_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; header_2_font_size_tablet=&#8221;40px&#8221; header_2_font_size_phone=&#8221;32px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h1>Conjugal Spirituality<\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;90413bc8-97b4-4b6c-b85c-11d0f2dfdbfb&#8221; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#2789C3&#8243; header_line_height=&#8221;1.1em&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Roboto|300|||||||&#8221; header_2_font_size=&#8221;50px&#8221; header_2_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;justified&#8221; max_width=&#8221;700px&#8221; max_width_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; max_width_phone=&#8221;&#8221; max_width_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; header_2_font_size_tablet=&#8221;40px&#8221; header_2_font_size_phone=&#8221;32px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]\u201c<em>This means Christianising the whole of family life. First of all, it means seeking the Christian meaning in all family realities, asking oneself the question, \u201c<\/em>Deep down, what is God\u2019s thinking on love, on fatherhood and motherhood, sexuality, education, on all the great realities facing couples?\u201d <em> And then not only discovering it, but also wanting to put God\u2019s idea into practice in all these areas.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><cite>Henri Caffarel, L\u2019Anneau d\u2019Or, no. 84<\/cite>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/mediadoc\/2025\/12\/fond-principal-2.png&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;50px|50px||50px&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|50px||50px&#8221; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;20px|20px||20px||true&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/mediadoc\/2026\/02\/spiritualite-conjugale-pensee.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;conjugal spirituality&#8221; title_text=&#8221;conjugal-spirituality-thought&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_style=&#8221;zoom&#8221; animation_intensity_zoom=&#8221;10%&#8221; box_shadow_style=&#8221;preset1&#8243; box_shadow_vertical=&#8221;32px&#8221; box_shadow_blur=&#8221;100px&#8221; box_shadow_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.15)&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#2F5EAA&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;50px||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;35px||||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;85%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;85%&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;fdf96b50-2e61-4686-a282-af8d74d2ef56&#8243; header_2_text_color=&#8221;#FFFFFF&#8221; animation_style=&#8221;slide&#8221; animation_direction=&#8221;left&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2>Conjugal Spirituality according to Father Henri Caffarel<\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;RGBA(255,255,255,0)&#8221; divider_weight=&#8221;3px&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_direction=&#8221;90deg&#8221; background_color_gradient_stops=&#8221;#fea060 0%|#fb6f62 100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;100px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;left&#8221; max_height=&#8221;3px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-20px||37px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_blurb title=&#8221;A Spirituality born out of the Married State&#8221; use_icon=&#8221;on&#8221; font_icon=&#8221;&#x24;||divi||400&#8243; image_icon_background_color=&#8221;RGBA(255,255,255,0)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]It is built upon the married state of couples\u2014with its demands, its difficulties, and its graces. It invites spouses to live their conjugal union and their Love of Christ as one single love. How does Christ lead them? Through their own love\u2014their human love\u2014the love that He gradually sanctifies through His presence. The sacrament of marriage is the strong and effective sign of this grace that overcomes obstacles.[\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_blurb title=&#8221;A Christian Way of living for Couples&#8221; use_icon=&#8221;on&#8221; font_icon=&#8221;&#x24;||divi||400&#8243; image_icon_background_color=&#8221;RGBA(255,255,255,0)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Henri Caffarel, Monthly Letter of the \u00c9quipes Notre-Dame, June 1950&#8243; portrait_url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/mediadoc\/2025\/06\/logo.png&#8221; quote_icon_color=&#8221;#F86C3B&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; body_font=&#8221;||on||||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Spirituality is the science that deals with the Christian life and the paths that lead to its full flourishing. Now, integral Christian life is not only adoration, praise, asceticism, effort in the interior life. It is also service of God, in the place assigned by him: family, profession, City\u2026 Thus, the households that come together to be initiated into spirituality, far from seeking ways to escape the world, strive to learn how, following Christ\u2019s example, to serve God, throughout their whole life and in the midst of the world.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_testimonial][et_pb_blurb title=&#8221;The Evangelical Ideal: following Christ without Compromise&#8221; use_icon=&#8221;on&#8221; font_icon=&#8221;&#x24;||divi||400&#8243; image_icon_background_color=&#8221;RGBA(255,255,255,0)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Henri Caffarel, Monthly Letter of the \u00c9quipes Notre-Dame, November 1962&#8243; portrait_url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/mediadoc\/2025\/06\/logo.png&#8221; quote_icon_color=&#8221;#F86C3B&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; body_font=&#8221;||on||||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The evangelical ideal is not, solely and above all, a body of doctrine to adopt, but Someone to follow. To follow, that is, to learn to think, to act, to live with Him and like Him. And this Someone is not a man of half-measures, nor of compromises. He is the man of a single love, and he asks no less of his disciples: &#8216;No one,&#8217; he says, &#8216;can serve two masters&#8217; (Mt 8:24). He knows how to be patient, &#8216;not to quench the smouldering wick&#8217; (Mt 12:20), but he does not compromise on the ideal. He takes what is given to him, but he asks for everything: &#8216;You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength and with all your mind&#8217; (Lk 10:27). 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