{"id":234331,"date":"2025-08-17T15:03:41","date_gmt":"2025-08-17T13:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/caffarel.hyppoweb.fr\/his-thought\/the-priest-and-the-home\/"},"modified":"2026-07-07T18:58:12","modified_gmt":"2026-07-07T16:58:12","slug":"the-priest-and-the-couple","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.henri-caffarel.org\/en\/his-thinking\/the-priest-and-the-couple\/","title":{"rendered":"The priest and the couple"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;The Location&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_enable_image=&#8221;off&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;bottom_left&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;54px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; padding_top_bottom_link_1=&#8221;false&#8221; padding_top_bottom_link_2=&#8221;false&#8221; padding_left_right_link_2=&#8221;true&#8221; 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